Chat-Rats

Chats in Voodoo Chat 

Other known names: crazy-b#stard, a-hole, w0rd, g0ddess, minx, word

Description: Lazy, Dangerous, Pathetic, Insipid, Immature,  Lowlife, that needs to be locked up and castrated.

Location: Wyoming 

This story is an "exact' c/p from the writer:

I don't know how the story can be told without revealing my identity, but I think it needs to be told. The boy (and yes...I use the term boy rather than "man").. is an internet predator to the max. We had gotten e-married in voodoo and he moved in with me in real. He was a complete sweet talker both in real and online. He found a job and worked for a month. He then quit that job and I supported him for the next 3 months. In that time, he held a knife to his throat 3 times threatening to kill himself. I have the scars on my arm from taking the knife away from him. He threatened to break my dogs neck and hang her from the ceiling fan. He also threatened to dissect my cats. It was far from the fairytale romance I'd always longed for. He would say things and not remember saying them. For example, he told me that someone else wrote the poems he sent me and also our e-vows and he simply pasted them. The next day (and he was sober at the time)... he didn't remember saying it..and denied it. He claimed to be eligible for SSI and so he didn't wanna find another job. Yet he never followed up on his application for SSI.

He has 2 kids from his marriage, which is another thing he lied to me about. He told me he was in the process of a divorce...but come to find out, neither one of them had ever filed for it. He told me he had never been in love before...and after a while, he was drunk one night and confessed he was in love with his ex. From then on whenever we'd argue, he'd tell me that I was jealous because he never loved me and he will always love her. He began spending hours upon hours on the internet...entire days...looking for his ex and waiting for her...messaging her... on MY computer. I rarely logged on while he lived with me, but the few times I did....he read my logs and made threats to my friends.

My furnace went out and I had the repairman come out. He accused me of blowing out the pilot light myself and sleeping with the repairman. He also said he placed nails under the guys tires. Then as the guy was leaving....he yelled out his accusations and cranked up the music...some song about cheating. He even accused me of having an affair with my brother-in-law.

He had lived with 2 other women, making me the third in less than a year. My relatives did not like him at all and they knew the things he'd been saying and doing...so they made their threats of exposing him for not paying his child support on his 2 children he has with his wife. He knew he was about to go to jail for not paying. His wife decided she wanted him back... after I told him he had to leave, he said that he would go back to his wife til she dropped the child support case and then dump her again.

So he left on Feb 11, and moved back to his moms house. He was back online and in "love" with another woman (his best "friends" real life ex). Now...he had only been gone from my house for a month...and he was in love and moved in with the next woman already? That makes 4 women he's lived with now...in less than a year.

I should also mention that there are children in my home and he would tell them one day that we were a family and he loved them. The next day he would tell them they meant nothing to him.

Since he got together with his latest....they have come to where I am in voodoo and harrassed me. I should also mention that since he has left...I have discovered that I am pregnant with his child. He denies it...saying that I'm faking the pregnancy and yet he claims his ex best friends child....is his. Even though he had never met the woman at the time. He tends to harrass many people and get banned from many servers. He gets banned from another chat all the time... (yakchat - where he uses the name of lil_saint among others).

I don't know what he will do if he sees this story. There's no way he could mistake it for anyone other than me. He knows the things he's said and done. I'm willing to accept the consequences though, because I know that he will end up leaving where he is now...and will be back online looking for his next victim.

I do have the proof of my pregnancy (ultrasound and letter from my doctor)..which I have sent to his mother. I get along well with her, and I believe she is beginning to see him for who he really is as well.

He had also installed trojans and keyloggers on my computer. After he got back to his moms, he proceeded to change my yahoo password and eventually stole my account. He also had a list of about 50 other accounts he'd stolen.

I couldn't get rid of the keylogger and therefore went to reformat my pc. When I did this, I could not get windows to reinstall and therefore had to buy a new pc.

Editors note:  To the writer of this story, and you know who you are! The last e-mail you sent us is extremely, private and personal. We at Chat-Rats, realize that it took an immense amount of courage to send this e-mail to us. Therefore, we are going to give you two days grace on this, to change your mind about making it public. If we do not hear from you within the two days, then we will add that information to this story. We at Chat-Rats, send you our love and best wishes, for your future, and your future dreams. We hope that just writing this story has in itself been a healing for you, and we also trust that seeing this story published, will go toward making this mans faked charm, less appealing to vulnerable women.

This next section was added, two days later, with total acceptance of the sender, as she wants the entire story to be told.

 I do have a couple more things to tell...but they are quite embarrassing and degrading to myself...

I had told him (cyrix) that I had a fantasy about a man taking control sexually. This was strictly a fantasy...not an expectation or a wish. But one night he took it upon himself to have his way with me even after I said no. I kept trying to push him off and telling him no, but he wouldn't listen. I have reasons for not reporting him to the authorities and I'd be happy to explain them...just not publicly. His excuse for continuing was that I had told him about the fantasy and he thought I wanted it.

Another thing he did in that area....is he couldn't find the ky one night, so he decided to use something else. I didn't realize what he was doing until it started burning and I jumped up to run wash... It was actually Ben Gay that he used. He thought this was extremely funny and proceeded to go online and tell his "buddies" about it. He was very immature when it came to the internet...well...and life also. I'd prefer this part not be told...but you can really do with it what you choose. I think just being able to type it all out like this has been a great help to my emotional well-being. My main focus now is on my expected child. Although I do wish that he was not the father....I am grateful for that one thing he gave me. I've always wanted kids and was told I couldn't have them. I really don't expect him to pay support as he doesn't pay on the 2 he already has.

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Courtney****

Chats in Voodoo

Other known names: Vanilla-Angel , Devil_Dog

Description: ConMan ... Dangerous threats made to most concerned

Location: New Jersey

Editors note : Mr. Courtney, or  Vanilla-Angel, or whatever name you are choosing to use now, if by chance you read this storg, and decide to carry through on your threats, please come after the board of Chat-Rats, as we are the ones responsible, for digging out this story. Perhaps, your "THUG TACTICS", may not be so effective when confronted with men of equal status!  We are waiting for you!

The story:

There are many people that can prove the claim that is being made here. Unfortunately, the threats made to those people by Courtney,  were so serious, the people concerned, are terrified to be named! Absolutely none of this information came from close parties.

Courtney has chatted in Voodoo for a few years now, "she" once was Vanilla-Angel here and in Excite. "She" always claimed to be a married bi-sexual woman with twin boys. Showed many of pictures of herself and seemed to have the stories to back it all up. "She" hinted at having cammed with several ppl and no one really confirmed, any of this,  until after the truth was revealed. When those ppl were approached it was discovered that ...yes they cammed with "her" but, they cammed and "she" watched, not cammed.

As a bi-sexual woman...Courtney was online  seeking women, rather than men for the most part. Although from time to time would have a "fling".  "She" was involved in a semi-serious relationship in Voodoo with another woman (name withheld). "She" also worked in a "brothel" of sorts as a woman...servicing both men and women.

Recently a handful of people began  to question little oddities.  Continuous lies crept up that couldn't be ignored anymore and digging was done. The end result was Courtney admitting to those around him that "she" was in fact a divorced dad of one. The pictures were photos he had stolen from his friend's daughters Myspace.

No one would have suspected, when wanting clarification on what was really some harmless lil missteps...that this would be revealed.  In the aftermath ... there was a lot of confusion and threats made to many,  regarding their real lives.  Courtney,  has since popped into chat time and again but, has avoided contact with the small group he blames for making him admit the truth. Not of course before he first tried to convince his on-line gf he was having family problems and would be offline for awhile but would keep in touch somehow. When he had admitted  who he really was...he was advised  to perhaps just leave chat and allow the inner circle to  handle breaking the news to the gf......He thought he was going be able to get to her...tell more lies,  and keep her.  Of course, the news had already reached her and she let him know as much...    then the threats toward her, also began.

If anything...a warning to everyone...though it has been said so many times...it bears repeating...

When in doubt...push for proof. Do not accept excuses, about phone calls or whatever. Yahoo, MSN, Skype...all offer voice programs...even a hi or something to prove someone is who they say as far as male or female. Even a trip to the local phone box to ring you.  Do not believe real pics, unless they have actually been seen on cam, or are holding something in the real pic that can identify that it is really them. As we can  see via this incident, that even multiple pics can be fake. If you are going to commit to someone online...don't hesitate to ask for proof! Webcams, phone/voice, face-to-faces...whatever.   Sure, it's "just chat" but there are still very real ppl here that get hurt by games others choose to play.

Another e-mail received about this man (name with-held)

Editor’s note: The person that sent this email below, had absolutely nothing to do with the unfolding of this case, and in fact, did her best to stop it becoming public.

I would like to request that you remove this post please. The reason is one, I would prefer to let this whole horrible incident die, and two, this person has made it very clear to me that I will be hurt in my real life if mention of this incident did not die immediately. In truth, I am scared to death that he will come through on the threats made, as he does have the means to do so.
 
I understand that the purpose of this place is to keep others from harm and I appreciate that. However, in doing so, I am directly in harms way.

Thank you in advance for your help in this manner.

Editor’s note: We at Chat-Rats wish to say, in regards to this case, that there are many people who do not want this case to be made public. These people are terrified of the consequences. The original e-mail came from someone that had absolutely nothing to do with this actual event. 

We at Chat-Rats, followed through, and investigated.

It is so very necessary for chat people to be made aware of the dangers  that lurk in the  hallways of chat.

Mr. Courtney, or  Vanilla-Angel, or whatever name you are choosing to use now, if by chance you read this story,  and decide to carry through on your threats, please come after the board of Chat-Rats, as we are the ones responsible, for digging out this story. Perhaps, your "THUG TACTICS", may not be so effective when confronted with men of equal status!  We are waiting for you!

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Crazy-B#stard: see Cyrix

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Cash: ***************(updated 9/5/08)

Other known names are: Horse

Chats in Voodoochat

One word description: Dangerous!

Location: British Columbia Canada

This man is apparently quite obnoxious when he is drinking. He abuses people via finding out their details, and using those details as a weapon against them. He be-friends people with his harmless talk, lulling them into a false sense of security. He then goes about destroying their self-esteem, and believes it is a game. To him, it's just chat. He is also known to be an amazing liar and story teller. One of his constant games is to tell people his son, or daughter, or wife has cancer, to gain their sympathy, and trust. This obnoxious man is dangerous and to be avoided. Never expose any personal or private details to this man, as he will expose those details at will for his own convenience and fun. Never show this man your personal picture, as he will save it to his computer and display that picture to all and any, at will. He tells people he is in his thirties or forties, when in fact he is in his late fifties. He is a heavy drinker, and whilst sober, he can be tolerated, however, one never knows in advance, when his mood will change.

Complaint after complaint about this disgusting person, continue to roll in.

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